Sunday, August 28, 2016

Diaper Bag Buying and $50 Giveaway!

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Skirt (on sale!) | Top (on sale!) | Shoes (old, want these ones) | Bracelets | Diaper Bag | Swaddle | Lila's Bow

Today I've teamed up with The Baby Cubby to share the ultimate diaper bag buying guide and to giveaway a $50 gift card to their store (online or in shop!).

I LOVE The Baby Cubby! They really are a unique option for baby item buying. The have a beautiful store location where you can test out items in person and an amazing web store with all the store options and more! The Baby Cubby is more than just a store though, they are an amazing resource for new moms. They offer many insights about their products and which will be the best fit for you. The range of baby products on the market can be overwhelming, but the Baby Cubby team is made up of parents who have been there, they know what it’s like and they are passionate about encouraging, inspiring, and reminding parents how amazing they are and how important their role is. The Baby Cubby also offers everyday price matching, even to amazon! They also offer free shipping online with orders over $49 (lets be real baby stuff is expensive and almost always over this anyway haha).

I bought a lot of products from The Baby Cubby before the arrival of Lila. One of my favorites is this Little Unicorn Diaper Bag. I love my petunia pickle bottom bag from them for everyday use, but I wanted a more sophisticated diaper bag to use when I'm dressing up. This bag is so classic! It has so much space, great quality, easily cleanable fabric and comes with stroller straps. I could not believe it was only $75! Like really that is an amazing price for such quality!

To find the perfect diaper bag for you, you can check out The Baby Cubby's Ultimate Diaper Bag Buying Guide. It is really so thorough and helpful to get exactly what you want/need.

Enter the giveaway for $50 to spend how you'd like at the Baby Cubby!

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Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Postpartum Preeclampsia Awareness

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If you read Lila's birth story you know that after birth I was diagnosed with postpartum preeclampsia. I felt like I was pretty well educated about possible complications during and after pregnancy. I enjoy reading research (I blame graduate school) and being prepared. Yet, with all of my reading I had never heard of postpartum preeclampsia. Yes, it is very rare. It only affects approximately 600 women a year. But it is a very serious postpartum complication that causes seizures, stroke (possible brain damage) and even death. I am so blessed that I was advised to stay in the hospital for 48 hours after birth due to being strep B positive. If I had stayed only the 24 hours who know what would have happened to me. So, I feel a need to spread awareness and educate women about postpartum preeclampsia and the symptoms. 

Many women who are sent home from the hospital before the onset of their postpartum preeclampsia get home, feel unwell, but attribute it to just birthing a child. They are unaware of their condition and can do damage to their organs and if they go untreated for long enough can have a stroke and die. That probably would have been me, because I felt totally fine! I was happy, alert, chatty and walking around. Then they took my blood pressure and it was 180/100. I would have never known. 

The symptoms of postpartum preeclampsia are...
  • A blood pressure of 140/90 or higher
  • Excess protein in the urine
  • Nausea or vomiting
  • Severe headache
  • Abdominal pain, especially under the ribs on the right side
  • Very little urine output
  • Sudden weigh gain (more than 2 pounds a week)
  • Sudden shortness of breath
For me, I only had high blood pressure. 

I just want other women out there to know what to look out for. If you are feeling weird postpartum go to a Walmart or Walgreens and check your blood pressure. I had to buy a little home blood pressure cuff since I have to take mine daily right now. 

If you have high blood pressure in the hospital be your own advocate! My family and I did research and knew that high blood pressure postpartum was serious and we needed tests and labs to make sure I didn't have other rare conditions. We also pushed for specialist opinions. Pushing for all of these things is the only reason I received the care I needed quicker (magnesium sulfate IV and urinalysis) and wasn't in the hospital for longer. 

I hope no one that reads this ever has postpartum preeclampsia, but if you do I hope that this helps you be more aware and educated about the condition. 

For more information about postpartum preeclampsia this article is great. 

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Monday, August 15, 2016

Postpartum Favorites

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| Top | Jeans | Shoes (the BEST mom shoes!)| Diaper Bag

After I posted this photo on Instagram I received SO many questions.

The first question was how did I loose the baby weight so quickly. My answer is I have no idea! I fit into my pre-pregnancy jeans one week postpartum and all I had done was sit in the hospital, pump and breastfeed. I'm thinking I got my mom's awesome genetics. I did eat really healthy in pregnancy and walked a lot. I tried not to "eat for two" and just ate the added amount of daily calories recommended for each trimester. Since I have been home from the hospital I have used the Belly Bandit BFF postpartum belly wrap and I highly recommend it! I feel like it totally helps my body go back to its pre-pregnancy size and it offers so much support! I don't know if its supposed to but it totally helps improve my posture which was ruined by pregnancy. I'm not wearing it in this photo, but I wear it when I'm breastfeeding or walking around my house.

The next question I received a lot was what travel system I have. I actually didn't get a travel system. I got this car seat and this stroller. I looked at lots of fancy nice ones and I went and tried this one out too. I felt like this has all the same bells and whistles without the big price tag. The stroller has a one hand fold and then stands on its own. The seat comes out completely so it can be just a frame (like it is in the picture). This makes it so light! The height of the handle bar can also be adjusted which I could only find in pricey options. It's so nice since I'm pretty short and my husband can adjust it higher when he is pushing it. The stroller comes in the normal version and the "LE" version which I got. This version has the child's tray included and you don't have to buy it separately. The storage underneath is also a great size.  The car seat came highly recommended from several friends but they all told me to get the "magic" version because the canopy is bigger and it has the newborn insert.

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We gave Lila her first sponge bath at home and she hated it!! haha Like screaming bloody murder. But I am in love with the bath products we bought and received as shower gifts. The Puj tub is a must have! She's so tiny and fit in it so perfectly and was so soft and cushy for her. The Puj towel that my friend gave me is so cool! It hooks around your neck so you can easily wrap your baby up after a bath. It's also so soft! Lila loved the towel a lot more than the bath!

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Ok, our absolute favorite baby product is the dockAtot!! Like worth EVERY PENNY! Lila would not sleep unless being held until we put the dockAtot in her bassinet. It makes her feel snug and secure and she sleeps like a champ every time we put her in it. If you're thinking about buying one you can use this link they gave me and you'll get $10 off.

I also had a lot of questions about my bassinet. I love our bassinet. Its simple and classic and does it's job well! Unfortunately it was gifted to me and is older so I can't tell you where I got it, but here are some of the ones I was looking at buying before I got this one.

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THIS DRESS you guys! It fits possibly even better postpartum! It's so flattering and so great for nursing! I want to buy like three more in different patterns especially because its still on sale!

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My final favorite baby product so far has been the Mamaroo. Lila loves it! If she is awake and neither of us can be holding her she's completely content in the mamaroo! I was worried that she would be too tiny without the newborn insert, but she fits well!

What are your favorite, must have baby items for a newborn??

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Thursday, August 11, 2016

Lila is here!

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My little Lila Jane is here!! I can't believe it! Here is her birth story.

On Wednesday August 3rd I woke up like any other morning and got out of bed to let Charlie out. I was 38 weeks and 6 days pregnant. When I sat down to get back into bed about 6:45 my water broke. It was crazy! I never thought my water would break and I had no idea it would be SO much water. It was like a bucket! I immediately said "Scott! My water broke!". He sprung up out of bed and was like "are you serious?!" and I said "yep! we're having a baby today!"

I quickly ran to the bathroom because I was still leaking water and was already worried that I ruined my mattress. I was so excited that I kept walking around in circles in the bathroom trying to think of everything we needed to throw in the car. We both could not believe it! We got dressed,  grabbed the hospital bags and hopped in the car. We called both of our parents on the way and told them that my water broke. My family immediately packed up and jumped in the car to make the drive from New Mexico. On the short drive to the hospital Scott and I just couldn't believe that it was really happening! We were going to meet our baby!
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We got to the hospital at 7:30 and got checked into the most beautiful corner delivery room with gorgeous views of the mountains. They checked me and I was dilated to a 2 and 80% effaced. They also hooked me up to the monitors, put in an IV and took some blood tests since my blood pressure was elevated.  The monitors showed that I was having contractions but I couldn't really feel anything haha. They came again a half hour later and I hadn't dilated anymore so they started me on pitocin. I started having contractions more regularly then. They weren't too painful, more uncomfortable, but I knew pitocin could make you progress quickly so I asked for the epidural then. My epidural was perfect! I could totally move both my legs, but couldn't feel a thing! The next time they checked me I was dilated to a 4 and 100% effaced.  Scott and I found a football game on rerun on the TV and enjoyed watching that (we weirdly love football). Time FLEW by! I felt like I had just checked in, but I had been there for 6 hours. They checked me again and I was dilated to a 7!! I progressed so much more quickly than I was expecting and the nurse started prepping everything for delivery. It was so surreal!

At around 3pm she checked me again and said I was dilated to a 10 and ready to go. It was soon after that, that I felt the crazy urge to push. The nurse said I had to wait for the doctor though. Once he got there and got everything ready we started pushing. What was so crazy was that I really didn't feel anything but pressure. My doctor had to tell me when my contractions came so I knew when to push. I pushed for about 35 minutes and then she was here!! I started crying with joy immediately. It was the most incredible experience seeing her for the first time! Scott just kept saying "oh my gosh, oh my gosh". Scott cut the cord and then they laid her on my tummy. I could not believe she was mine and she had been inside of me just a minute ago. She wasn't crying as much as they wanted so they took her off my tummy and moved her over to the assessment table and started rubbing her and getting her to cry a little more (honestly she's just not much of a crier). Then they weighed her and that's when I really got to see her cute face for the first time! I saw that she had my chin and it started the waterworks all over again. Then I finally got to hold her skin to skin. It was unreal.
While holding her skin to skin she lifted her whole head off of my chest! She is so strong already! After about 15 minutes of skin to skin I could tell she wanted to eat and she latched right away. She is a champ eater!
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When I got to hold her for the first time
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Scott holding her for the first time. My heart burst into a million pieces!
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We were then transferred to my postpartum room. We gave little Lila a sponge bath and her first set of shots (broke my heart). Then the nurses came in to check both of our vitals. Lila's vitals were great but they took my blood pressure and it was through the roof. They immediately gave me a medication that they said would drop it in the next 10 minutes. 15 minutes later they came back and took it again and it was higher. They then gave me a stronger medication through the IV since the medication wasn't working. That dropped it down really quickly, but when they came in to check my vitals the next hour it had skyrocketed again. They gave me two more doses of the IV medication and increased my oral medication dosage. All that night they could not keep my blood pressure under control. It was really scary. The next day the doctor came in to share his concerns about being unable to control my blood pressure. We spent the whole day trying different doses of medication but my blood pressure would still spike like crazy and I would have to get the IV medication to bring it down.
My doctor consulted with a high risk fetal medicine doctor and they decided that my condition was a possibility of a few rare things and that testing would be needed for all of them. I had a bunch of labs done, they put in a catheter to do a 24 hour urine collection to check for a rare tumor on my adrenal gland and they gave me a 24 hour magnesium IV for postpartum preeclampsia. The magnesium IV drip made me feel absolutely horrible but my blood pressure stayed in the normal range all day and I lost a lot of my swelling.

 The next day (I think that was day 5 past delivery- honestly it was so stressful and all such a blur) I was taken off the catheter and IV. My blood pressure levels had now been in normal range consistently for over 24 hours. The doctors believed they had found the right dosage of blood pressure medication and they started my discharge papers. I felt great and was SO excited to be going home!! They told me I had to take my blood pressure three times a day to make sure it didn't spike again and that the medication was working.

I had the most wonderful evening at home. It was heaven! I got up to feed Lila about 2 in the morning and didn't feel good. I took my blood pressure and it had skyrocketed to 182/120. I was devastated. I knew I had to get the ER right away to get the IV med that we knew brought  it down quickly.

At the ER they quickly gave me an IV and the medication and then had to give me another dose because it wasn't going down. I honestly thought that they would just change my medication dosage I would go back home, but the doctor was very concerned and said I needed to be readmitted to the hospital for further testing.  I was devastated, but then he told me that my baby could not be readmitted  and should stay at home away from any possible sickness at the hospital (which I totally agree with) and I was distraught. Saying goodbye to my baby was the most heartbreaking thing I have ever experienced. I was extremely worried and concerned about my own health and although I knew I was in good hands, I couldn't help but wonder if it would be the last time I saw her. The poor guy who rolled me away from my baby to my hospital room. I was sobbing the whole way and I think he probably felt horrible and awkward.

I quickly had so much going on. I had more oral medications and IV meds. I had an ultrasound of my kidneys and a CT scan of them as well. After a series of miracles, I was able to meet with a cardiologist. At first they said it could take days to get a consult with one which was devastating because I just wanted to get home as quickly as possible. The cardiologist ordered a echocardiogram on my heart and helped me find the right dosage of medication to keep my blood pressure in a good range. He was the reason I got to go home as soon as I did.

In the end, they ruled out all of the more rare/severe things that could have been causing my high blood pressure and diagnosed me with a rare form of postpartum preeclampsia. They are hoping as my body recovers from the preeclampsia in the next few weeks I can wean off the medication and get back to feeling more normal.

I am so blessed that Lila was perfectly healthy and happy through all of this. She is the best baby!
The birth was incredible and I'd do it all over again in a second. The postpartum recovery has not been what I expected and pretty difficult, but it was 100% worth it.

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